Today I try something different for the first time: Posting in bi-language. English and Chinese. Hope my Chinese won't be too bad. >今天我尝试用双语言来发稿。请多多指教 _________________________ https://nobullying.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/depression-and-anxiety.jpg [Source](https://nobullying.com/school-bullying/) My elder daughter just started her primary school this year. She was looking forward and excited to explore her new world. Every night after I reached home from work, she will share with me things that happened at school. Last night when we are chatting with my elder daughter, she told us that one of her classmates purposely pushed her from the back while they are walking to the classroom. Luckily, she fell on the grass. No physical injury. My wife told me that apparently, the same children that pushed my daughter, he punched another child in the head. The victim's parents complained to the school principal. Both victim's parent and bully's parent are having a war of words in the WhatsApp group. >我的大女儿今年开始进小学了。她每天带着期待与愉快的心情去学校认识新朋友。每当我放工回到家后，她会开始告诉我学校里那天发生的事情。昨天晚上她说道有位同班同学在排队走回教室时大力的推了她一把，让她跌倒了。幸亏那时是走在草场上，没弄伤。 >我太太更我说，她那同班同学几天前有拳头打了另一位男同学的头部，搞到受害者的家长投诉到校长去。之后双方的家长在WhatsApp里也骂来骂去。 https://nobullying.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/The-Dangers-of-Bullying-for-Kids.jpg [Source](https://nobullying.com/the-dangers-of-bullying-for-kids/) Bullying problem is increasingly alarmed in recent years. Despite all the Stop Bullying campaign, the bullying rate is still increasing. As much as we want to do something about it, many of us not exactly sure what we can do. Where does bullying really started? Some tried to push the responsibility to the school or teachers, but for me, it all started from home. Parents are the best teacher at home. A child spends only eight hours in the school, the remaining time of the day, they stayed at home. Children need attention, they need love. With the current society, there are many families that the father and mothers are working. Without enough attention to the children, they more likely to lash out with negative behavior. The negative behavior will then be carried over to school. >学校霸凌在这几年几乎严重了很多。政府做了很多有关停止霸凌的活动宣传，但是统计还是渐渐上升。很多人希望能做些东西去减少霸凌事件，但是不知从那下手。 >霸凌到底从哪开始？很多人将责任推给了学校和老师，但在我的看法，一切应该从家里开始。家长是家庭里最好的教师。我们的小孩一天里只是八个小时的时间是在校园里，其他的时间就是在家里了。小孩最需要的是家长们的关注与爱。不过在现在的社会很多家庭的父母都出外赚钱。当小孩缺少的关注与爱，很多时候负面的态度就会产生。这些负面的态度也将会带到校园里。 https://theintelligentnest.files.wordpress.com/2013/04/sf-mother-talking-to-children.jpg?w=608&h=400&crop=1 [Source](https://intelligentnest.com/2013/04/30/narration-an-essential-communication-strategy/) To educate the children, both parents and teachers need to do their part. Before the children enter school, they will spend the first six years together with their parents, that is where the children build their behavior foundation. Teacher is to enhance the foundation by educating the children on what kind of behaviour is OK and,what is not. One of the best ways to minimize bullying cases at school is to implement strong policies against bullying. These policies should clearly be defined the steps to handle bully cases if happened. It will be best if the process of creating the policy involve parents, students, and teachers. I believe in every school, there are areas that are dark, or not many people hanging around. Bullying usually happened at those places. It will be best if the school can send someone to check around that area at random timing. >教好小孩是老师与父母的责任。小孩在进小学前都是在父母身边，父母应该就在那段时间好好教导小孩的态度。教师就是在已经打好的基础上教导小孩那些态度是不可以接受的。 >其中一个减少学校灞陵的方法就是设立一些有关对付灞陵的政策。这政策需要很清楚的写下如何处理学校霸凌。设立这政策最好由学校，小孩与家长一起参与。这才会达到最好的效果。 >还有的是，通常每间学校里都会有一些地方是比较暗，或没什么人的地方。灞陵通常就会在这种地方发生。校方应该派人在不同的时间巡逻这些地方，确保没任何霸凌发生。 https://www.myautism.org/wp-content/uploads/bfi_thumb/National-Bullyig-Awareness-Month-Ways-for-Parents-to-get-involve-American-Autism-Karen-mgbs2p7udpzgv8ylecdhdsdy3xg780br1lgvjb0ysg.jpg [Source](https://www.myautism.org/8-ways-to-help-your-child-with-autism-stop-bullying-at-school-2/) In summary, it is important for parents and teachers to educate our children on what is bullying, and what is wrong with it. Children should feel safe in school. Let's create a better environment for them to obtain quality education without fear of being bully. >总结来说，教育我们的小孩有关霸凌的坏处是很重要的。学校应该是小孩安全学习，无需担心被欺负的好地方。 http://www.worldofbuzz.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/murid1.jpg [Source](http://www.worldofbuzz.com/author/wobbywob/page/41/) ____________ https://steemitimages.com/DQmepDz9DNUfgHYWZCABVYVEL9zjdbe9tnHWBXH2abTYx13/image.png https://steemitimages.com/0x0/https://ethandsmith.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/steemengineBanner.png [

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