One of the the most difficult - and critically-important - lessons I’ve learned: *how to contain conversations.* Gauging when and where to put boundaries on what to share *and not to share* with whom. Turning on the senses to determine what is *and isn’t* appropriate to go into at different times in different contexts. https://s18.postimg.cc/qru6rou9l/8_BDBCF12-1_C95-4_B2_B-881_A-6_A44_AD881189.jpg These lessons didn’t come easy. *Rather,* they mostly came through mess-ups. Through saying too much, too soon, at the wrong time, to the wrong people. In my youthfulness, there were *many* different things I was learning about, going through, and excited to share. But regardless of what brilliance I may have been opening up into, there was an idiot side to the savant. And *often,* I lacked the social intelligence to match my enthusiasm level for what *I* was exploding with where *others* were actually at. *Many* times, I rambled on on tangents, oblivious to how far off I was with really connecting and communicating at a level that amounted to an impactful, meaningful experience of *value-exchange*. *Much* time and energy, I wasted. My own, *and others.’* But, I didn’t know any better. Some lessons, you *have* to learn through trial-and-error. https://media.giphy.com/media/vfDznl3KCloTm/giphy.gif The older and wiser I’ve gotten, the more I’ve grown to see the priceless scarcity and value of *time.* Having *spent* so much on empty, confusing, distracting, impotent words, I’ve come to see the benefit of saying/writing *less*. So as to jam pack maximum quality into minimum quantity. Conveying the essence of an idea as succinctly, powerfully, and simply as possible. There may be *millions* of directions we could take ourselves - *and our readers/listeners* - in while writing/speaking. But without limits, we may run out of time and energy before communicating what is truly most important to share in a given moment. https://media.giphy.com/media/X10azJgFl8bXq/giphy.gif Life is meant to be *lived.* *Not* spent eyeballs glued to computer/smartphone screens. With information overload looming, the greatest gift we can offer others - in these worlds of social media, especially - is the honorance of their *time.* Or in others words: ensuring our communication is rich in substance, *well*-worth the time invested engaged in reading/listening. There are *so* many things that have *already* been said, which *really* don’t *need* repeating. And there are *many* discussions which may simply be better not had at all. Ultimately, we *need* boundaries. We *need* to resist engaging in petty dialogues that burn energy rather than cycle it upward to create more *(if ascension in the game is the aim)*. To play at the higher [levels](https://steemit.com/life/@rok-sivante/levels-the-elements-of-reality-architecture) requires greater degrees of skill in energy & time management. ***Skills in quantum coding - multi-dimensional processes, within which the use of language is one.*** https://media.giphy.com/media/l1J9R3nYDXzI54G1G/giphy.gif We *are* spellcasters. Each offering of words, a spell. A coding script, the blueprints of a program. *Without restraint,* we may do far more damage than good, directing others’ attention and focus counterproductively. *With consciousness,* we may serve others through invitation into perspectives and spaces in which their expansion is accelerated into the realization and thriving in Their Supreme Being, *by reaction of the frequency of light imbued in the message.* *With consciousness,* we serve others in perspectives and spaces evoking the realization *they’re* A Supreme Being, *as a epigenetic consequence of the frequencies transmitted.* *But we gonna go back to parroting opinions now...?* And you can put *that* in your pipe and smoke it. https://media.giphy.com/media/nouZEd0xPqvYY/giphy.gif

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