Before I forgot, let me take this moment to honor, celebrate, and pays tribute to all the wonderful, beautiful, unbreakable bone (rib) women.
Chasing those that offer nothing of substance is showing disregard for your soul's sustenance. Learn this lesson, because the man who wants what's best for you, will keep you from anyone that'll make a mess of you.💗
During my vulnerable days , a friend once told me that line hoping that someday, not as early as the day he tried to sow that one onto my thoughts, but someday, I might be able to get hold of the idea that I do deserve far greater than the best I've already thought what's right for me. It's harder to think as there are lot of times when we invest more time and effort to someone which will grow unworthy as days passed by. Even the money that what was once had been worked so hard to earn just to provide and sustain our family's needs and even ours. We even learn how to respond silently on calamities brought by the relationships we thought as right and real while others see it as a great mistake.
It may take days, months, or years for you to realize or to see what others have seen that you haven't. The longer you're into such toxic relationship or toxic people, the harder it'll be in recovering your lost self or identity. Reputation will be wreck in havoc and confidence will be as devastated as a lost child left with nothing and abandoned. One may learn from the harder situations but it's the greater lesson that will come in handy. I keep on reminding myself about this until there is the right time that come through where my mind already accepted it, digested it, and even feed it through the deepest of my soul. One thing I've learned? Nobody deserves to be alone, and no one has the right to make others feel like they were.