Most people I know are obsessed with having as many friends as they can. As many “likes” as they can. As many followers as they can.
They want validation. They want to feel “accepted”. They want to feel like they belong to certain groups. They try to change their own ways to fit into their lifestyle.
Sure, it’s fun to know a lot of people. But having friends for the sole purpose of validating that you’re worth it, I think, will only destroy you in the process.
We think that being famous is so much fun. We envy those people with a lot of friends...and we pity those who prefer to be alone. As far as I have observed, not every famous person has a fun life and not every loner has a sad and boring life.
I’m a loner myself and I am contented being with a small circle. I have experienced going with different groups but then I realized they just stab me behind my back because I don’t fucking know. XD
You don’t need a lot of friends...
You just need the real ones
Joyce and I have been best friends for 9 years now. We don’t see each other everyday. We don’t even talk everyday. But we know we will be there for each other when needed.
I knew we were already complete when we found each other. We accepted each other even without asking for it. That’s the friendship that I think is enough for most people.
Society pressures us to be like that. Truth is, you just need to find the real ones. Those who will not judge you for who you truly are and will help you clean your foot if you stepped on shit. Fuck society’s standards. Do not conform. Be a rebel.
Wow hiddenblade talking inspirational shit but yeah do whatever you want tho I don’t really care about you I’m just sayin xD
And also because I like this selfie and I don’t want to post 1 photo with no caption.