Do you know Listen?

In relationships of any kind, friendship, love, work, study, etc. Play a very important role communication. If there is no fluent communication, the relationship risks breaking down.

There are many people who believe that they have good communication and therefore they believe that their relationships are very good ... but the problem is that in most of the occasions, for these people, communicating is talking and talking. For these people to communicate is to express to others what they feel, what they want, what they do, in short, express everything they want, forgetting that a communication is satisfactory when there is feedback. A person who talks and talks and does not listen to others can hardly assure that they have good communication.

I've met people I want to tell their something, but it's so difficult to express what I want, without interruption ... and in the end, they do not let you tell anything because they end up talking about everything or what they want.

In those cases, I simply give up, hahaha. And I remain silent and listen to them. I do not know if it is that they are people who do not have someone to vent on or who simply do not know how to listen.

Knowing how to listen is as important in life as expressing oneself, you can not pretend to have a successful relationship when you are not willing to listen. To me sincerely with this type of people I do not like to spend a lot of time, only what is necessary.

When you meet people who listen carefully and get involved in such a way that they can give you good advice or contribute something good in the conversation, they are those people that I prefer to be with. They are those people that generate a certain degree of confidence, and they are people that I consider, they know how to relate.

If you are one of the people who only like to talk, keep in mind that it is not pleasant, that just as someone listens to you and can give you good advice, other people deserve to be heard. Try to make an effort to listen to the people with whom you relate, it is something that you will value later.