Relationships are vital to our life’s journey. They determine how far or how slow we would go in life. It has been said that if you want to move fast, you have to travel light and this is why it is important to surround yourself with the right kind of relationship. The company we keep will make or mar us in our life’s journey.
A man will remain the same again in 5 years except for two things; the books he read and the company he keeps. Your association will determine how far you will go in life because association smells. Over time you will smell like the company you keep because it will rub off on you. Whatever company you choose, you will soon become like them; either they pull you up to their level or they drag you down to their level. There is wisdom in determining the kind of people you allow into your space.
Destiny is not emotional. You need to evaluate the kind of people you have in your life and you need to be intentional about it. There are people you need to booth out and there are some you need to allow into your space. Relationships expire and you don’t need to hold on to some longer than expected especially when they have overstayed their relevance. There is no need forcing open a door that has been shut on its own. Don’t let it take away from you more than it can add. Be wise.
We have four types of relationships that are needed for you to get to your desired comfort.
1. Casual relationship:
Some of this kind of relationship can develop into a full time one but often times, casual relationship is the type that comes to get you to the desired point and it doesn’t have to necessarily be built.
Imagine ordering for uber or taking a bike. You can engage the driver in some sort of conversation and you might have a good laugh but it doesn’t necessarily translate into much. You can learn off each other for that time frame but it is a casual one to get you to your desired point.
…to be continued…
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