Should a mother never tell her kid to not steal? So, Billy is grabbing candy from a store. So, you can choose not to say anything to Billy. Yes, of course, focus on the positive. Encourage people to heal, love, give, encourage, inspire, help, nurture, teach, uplift, restore, rejuvenate, revolutionize, raise, and resurrect, like you said in your list. Focus on what you can do and not just on what you cannot do.
RE: A simple religion for any free thinker.