As in the Ocean so on Earth: Know your limits!

How many hours might you be paddling out there in the storm until you realize that you won't catch any waves today?

The currents are strong, pulling you offshore towards the open sea. There are almost no people in the water for a reason. But you're there. Still.

Realizing that sometimes you can't fight until the very end doesn't mean that you're weak.

It's the exact opposite.

The wiser surfer gives in, not up.

Only the weak cling to a fight they can't win.

Today's session was quite tough.

The wind was blowing strongly from different directions, and while I was paddling out there it even started to rain.

The sky looked like as if it was really angry.

It was a desperate game.

What Mother Ocean has taught me through surfing is that the stronger one isn't the one that fights until the very end.

Real strength lies in the capacity of knowing your limits and having the courage to not exceed them.

Many people believe that it's the other way around. I don't think so.

Giving in doesn't mean that you're giving up. It means that you know your value.

Make sure that you also clearly communicate these values to the people that surround you. It's your life, so you define the rules.

Have you ever had an octopus on your face? It must be terrific - haha!

Whoever doesn't contribute to your happiness: set them free!

We only live once, so why spend our valuable time with anybody that doesn't support us?

Choose the people who have the privilege to be part of your lives very wisely. Challenge them. The ones who really love you will prove it. The ones who don't as well.

Letting go is one of the most liberating acts of all. Enjoy it!

Much love,

Marly -

PS: It is #LoveFriday, steemians (a wonderful initiative hosted by @liliana.duarte)! That's the perfect chance to remember the ones you won't ever let go and to tell these people how much you love them.

Original content. Quotes found on lovethispic.com and pinterest.com.

maryan