We often don’t know what we want. Unclear desires often inform what we bring into our experience. If we want to be there but we also want to be here, we are setting ourselves up for a headache. We build tension between two conflicting desires. Sometimes these two things are not actually contradictory, but our belief that they are contradictory causes these two desires to pull us in two different direction.
There are two main reasons we don’t know what we want. The first is that we haven’t explored ourselves yet. We follow what we think we are supposed to do and be and aren’t deeply in touch with our true desires. This takes work to overcome but it’s a big topic so I will go into it another time. The other reason is that we don’t believe what we want is actually even possible. We justify working a job we don’t love because we don’t believe we can find a better one. We hang out with people who don’t really fulfill our desire for deep connection because we don’t know how to meet those who fit us better.
We think things need to be A or B and rarely allow for the possibility of C. If we focus upon the aspects which we like about A and B, sometimes we find there is a way to combine the two, or a third path opens up before us.
There are always unseen roads waiting to open up for us but it’s up to us to get into the right mindset to discover them.
Read the rest of this series:
Vibrations 1 - Tuning your Instrumen
Vibrations 2 - Tuning your Instrument 2
Vibrations 3 - Vibrating in and out of Harmony
Vibrations 4 - Why your vibe attracts your tribe...
Vibrations 5 - The Vibration of Love and Fear
Vibrations 6 - Contradictory Vibrations
Vibrations 7 - Contradictory Vibrations 2
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